Love is one of the sweetest emotions in life. It asks for two qualities predominantly – sacrifice and respect. In humankind, those who claim to be in love often think they own the person whom they love. This is where the problem starts and makes them think they can go to any extent to control the person they love. Is this correct? Should the person you love always control you and make choices for you? Is this really love? You get these doubts in your mind many a time, isn’t it?

Lord Krishna taught us never to control the person we love. According to him, if you truly and passionately love somebody, you must let them have their independence in making their choices in life. If your love for them is profoundly sincere, they will find you quite interesting in one way or the other and try to reach you. This means you can love them and manifest your love without hurting them.

The idea of controlling your person of love is really not love but an inordinate desire, which will cripple them emotionally to a level where they will start disliking you and hate you eventually.

So, my message is please experience love and its sweetness, but always be watchful of your boundaries. The moment you cross the line, you will end up hurting.

All the best!